ouch!
mysql> select * from friendlist_statuses;
+-----+--------------+--------------+------+---------+------------+------+------------------+
| sid | requester_id | requestee_id | rtid | status | rid_origin | rid | last_update_time |
+-----+--------------+--------------+------+---------+------------+------+------------------+
| 7 | 1 | 5484 | 1 | TW_BOTH | 232 | 232 | 1259898195 |
| 8 | 5484 | 1 | 1 | TW_BOTH | 233 | 233 | 1259898195 |
+-----+--------------+--------------+------+---------+------------+------+------------------+
2 rows in set (0.00 sec)
mysql> select * from friendlist_relations;
+-----+--------------+--------------+------+---------+-------------+---------------------+
| rid | requester_id | requestee_id | rtid | message | create_time | tw_disregarded_time |
+-----+--------------+--------------+------+---------+-------------+---------------------+
| 232 | 1 | 5484 | 1 | hi | 1259898117 | 0 |
| 233 | 5484 | 1 | 1 | thanks! | 1259898195 | 0 |
+-----+--------------+--------------+------+---------+-------------+---------------------+
2 rows in set (0.00 sec)